Amy Jakobsen is an American citizen. She was born in the US where she has also spent the first years of her life. Later her family moved to Norway where her father originated from. In Norway Amy gave birth to her son Tyler.
It was in July 2013 when Amy’s worst nightmare began. Without any warning, the Norwegian Child Welfare Services known as ‘Barnevernet’ accompanied by police knocked at her door, saying that her 19-month-old son Tyler had to be taken to a hospital for an examination immediately.
What happened? In the weeks leading up to the taking of Tyler, the young mother was increasingly concerned about the growth curve of her son. Tyler did not yet want to move to more solid food but instead continued to prefer breastmilk. Tyler was Amy’s first child, so she lacked the experience to know that children can develop quite individually. But, being a concerned mother, Amy even took Tyler for medical check-ups three times a month in order to monitor the growth process very closely. Then, came the summer. Amy went on a vacation with Tyler to America for two weeks and visited friends and relatives.
But, as soon as they returned back to Norway, the Child Welfare Service, together with the police came to her house, saying that Tyler must be examined immediately in a hospital. Amy found out later that someone had alerted the Child Welfare Office in order to maliciously harm her. Being completely overwhelmed by the situation Amy agreed to go to a hospital with them. Also, Kevin M., the Norwegian father of the child came along. At the hospital a doctor diagnosed Tyler with a slightly ‘underweight’. The boy would have had to weigh 10 kg, the doctor said. But Tyler weighed only 9.6 kg, which is actually not a reason for a concern according to the weight charts. The doctor also criticised that Amy was still breastfeeding her son.
Instead of offering advice to improve the nursing, the employees of the Child Welfare Office now wanted to intervene on the basis of the medical diagnosis and remove the child from the mother. This led to a verbal confrontation which the father filmed with his smartphone. It’s a scene that can now be found on Youtube (see Photo below). “When will I see my son again?” asked Kevin M. “We cannot tell you that yet,” replied one of the employees of the Child Welfare Office. Finally, Kevin is ejected from the hospital as the argument got louder and louder.
Photo: Screenshot from YouTube Video
What followed next was like a scene from a Hollywood movie. Kevin went back to the hospital and put on a doctor’s outfit. In disguise, he was able to go to the room where his little son Tyler was brought in the meantime. He took his son unnoticed, left the building in a hurry, and drove around the area aimlessly, knowing that these might be the last moments with his son. Finally, he was stopped by several police cars. One police officer on the roadside even threw a big stone at the car, which nearly hit his child.
Kevin then was detained for one night for attempted child abduction. He was released the next day, because a judge realised that Kevin was the biological father and he still had parental rights. However, little Tyler remained in the care of the Norwegian Child Welfare Office. For the time being the parents still had the right to visit and occasionally see Tyler – in a police station behind double-locked doors. But, a year later the visitation rights were cancelled. The authorities saw a potential abduction risk as Amy is an American citizen and they didn’t want her to take Tyler to America. In the following court trials this was also the main argument for removing parental rights from both her and the child’s father. On September 22, 2014, Amy saw her son for the last time. Up to now both parents don’t know where their son Tyler is and how he is doing.
In order to hide the child’s new whereabouts, the authorities changed Tyler’s name twice. At the age of four years old, Tyler already had three different names.
Instead of helping Amy with her first child, those who actually should strengthen families, ruined Amy’s life. Not to think of the horrible trauma that little Tyler had to suffer. How can such traumatic experiences serve the best interests of a child at such a young age? Especially, in the first years of life, the love and affection of the biological mother are known to be of great importance for the healthy development of a child. For Amy it’s an endless nightmare.
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